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Heels of pride! Super-tall 6ft 4in woman embraces 6in heels after years of ‘transvestite’ torment

A 6ft 4in woman says she has finally come to terms with her height after years of being mistaken for a transvestite – and now loves to wear 6in high heels – despite them making her TALLER than the UK’s tallest woman.

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Melanie Coulson, 46, was born with Marfan Syndrome, a rare condition which affects connective tissue and means those with the disorder have abnormally large legs or hands.

The mum-of-two, who has a 36in inside leg, has endured a lifetime of taunts – including frequently being asked whether or not she is a man – and spent years wearing flat shoes and walking with a stoop because she was so embarrassed by her height.

But Melanie, who also has a prosthetic eye, has since hit back at the haters to embrace her height – and now loves nothing more than slipping into a pair of high heels for every occasion, with seven pairs in her collection.

And she isn’t even shy of slipping into a stiletto, with her highest pair having a 6in heel – which make her 6ft 10in when she wears them, with Britain’s tallest woman 6ft 9in tall.

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Melanie, an accounts assistant from Mansfield, Derbys, said: “For many years I’ve only ever worn flat shoes and I would always stoop – I’d never even think about wearing heels as I wanted to look smaller.

“Every time I go out drinking, someone always comes up and asks if I’m a transsexual. It’s horrible.

“We were on holiday last year and I was sat round the pool with my daughter and someone asked me ‘have you had the operation to make you a man?’

“I later found out that the same woman had referred to me as ‘the ladyboy’.

“Then, three years, ago I got a pair of heels because something just changed inside me and I felt so feminine.  I thought I’m going to get started so I may as well wear a pair of heels. I would never have done that three years ago.

“They make me feel feminine and like a girl of a regular height does when she puts her heels on.

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“I’m the happiest I’ve ever been, and certainly the most confident.”

Melanie said she has faced ridicule throughout her life because of her height and was even made the object of a bizarre class “art project”.

She said her teenage years were particularly difficult due to bullying. Melanie said that she was often asked if she was a man or a transexual.

Melanie said: “I remember being at primary school and I had to lay on this huge piece of paper so people could draw around me as I was the tallest in the school and I was only 10.

“As a teenager, dating was an issue because fashion didn’t really cater for a girl my size.

“I didn’t really have too many boyfriends growing up. Not too many people want to date a tall girl.

“I’ve got a 36-inch inside leg, so that can also be a struggle. Looking different was a problem.

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“I had my first boyfriend when I was 17 and he was 5ft 6in.

“I think in those days though I was just happy to have a boyfriend, rather than someone who I actually liked.”

Melanie said despite feeling confident and happy in herself, she still encounters prejudices on a daily basis.

But after 20 years suppressing her femininity, she is now determined to face life head on.

Melanie said: “I just want to help people that struggle with their identities, as people can be so cruel.

“Now I’ve come to terms with my height, I find when people ask me questions it empowers me.

“There are other women out there who are 6ft and over.

“I want people to know you can be a woman and be happy with yourself despite looking different.

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“It’s never alright to say a comment that’ll make a person seem or feel any less beautiful.”

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